If i like women and transexuals am i gay or bi full#
the soft porn I think I just like the guys having fun with themselves and the kissing, the hard porn I dunno sometimes I don’t wanna see the full details. The only reason I don’t watch so much straight porn is because I like the women in it and sometimes it drives me insane how much fun I have watching her so I don’t watch it as much, maybe I want to be her? Maybe I want my man to be him? I dunno, I don’t feel in any way intimidated by her, im just really like her as well as him, straight guys watch straight porn, what do they think of the guys in it? I watch 2 types of gay porn, the first being just kissing and soft stuff, the other type being full hard porn. I just cant seem to find a guy to have fun with, id love a straight guy but I cant find one, what is with me liking much older men? If they are older are they wiser and not so much immature as to hurt me?Īs to your question on porn, I should have been a bit clearer, I love watching any kind of porn, except fetish stuff, whether it be gay or straight and watch and enjoy it. Right now my feelings is that im curious about women but deep down I don’t think I could ever actually go through with being with a woman, I mean im the first to shout about gay rights, im not at all homophobic but part of me does worry what my friends and family would think, if I only had to worry about me then I might very well go through with it, the other part of me says I hate my body so much maybe my desire is to be like them not actually with them? Honestly I don’t think im emotionally ready to be with a bloke, what I do know is that I really want a boyfriend, someone who loves me, repects me, treats me as I deserve but not being sexist, at what point do I find a guy who I can trust not to go blabbing behind my back to his mates? I mean im sure I would tell my female friends with we got up to so why shouldn’t he? But then I have the problem of what his friends will think of me? All the sweet guys who seem to be thoughtful are gay, I don’t trust men, not after what happened before, I loved him and he threw it back at me, told one of my mate’s what I said, that was deeply personal and he shouted it from the roof tops, that hurt me, I think im scared of getting hurt, id love a bi guy, but would I get jealous? Probably… If then they reject me im not hurt as its not a personal rejection, its just their preferences. i confided in a friend of mine and she said she had the same problem a while back, she says it could be cause if they are off limits then I think they cant hurt me, I think deep down my problem is insecurity and that carries over to my love life. it was disco night in a 'straight' club i go to, never before had i seen gay men in a straight club, it really was fun to watch them, although i have no idea why. I again posted the original message, i tried to forget about it all and busy myself with uni, and i was doing ok until i went out last night. Reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2007): I am really confused, i only fancy gay or camp men, i only watch male gay porn, but women sometimes really turn me on, is it because i like what they are doing or because i like them? can i ever be straight if i cant fancy straight blokes? there are all sorts of blokes out there, maybe i could be happy with a bi guy? i dont think i could ever be in a gay relationship, i would never compare to her and i dont think i'd like the sex, although its a real fantasy of mine to be with a girl, maybe just for one night so i could tell? dont think id ever have the guts to go get her though, about 2 years ago i really thought i was gay but guys REALLY turn me on, only its only gay guys, what do i do? a friend of mine who only likes gay guys is gay, am i?įancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!